Here's a letter my Uncle Jack received from his sister Frances. My uncle would have done what I'd do with such a letter - straight in the bin!
I reproduce it here: it shows the passion my Aunt Frances had for our family history. (Nicolas G Hubbard)
South Farm Road,
Worthing
BN14 7AE
18th Sept. 1973.
My dear Jack,
Very many thanks for your letter. I was delighted to know that your celebrations
went off so well, and that you all enjoyed it all so much.
But this letter is primarily to put you right in your conceptions about Father.
Make no mistake he had one of the most brilliant brains of all his brilliant
family. With regard to calcium sulphide remember that Father died in 1935,
before any of the multitudinous antibiotics, sulphonamides, tranquilizers or
even penicillin were ever dreamed of. Penicillin was actually discovered in the
‘20’s but it was set aside and forgotten in a corner of the laboratory till the
‘39 war, when its potentialities began to be discovered. Even when I re-entered
Pharmacy in 1952 we were still having to make our own sterile preparations, and
a long and complex job it was. So Father had none of these powerful drugs at his
disposal, and he did brilliantly with those he had at the time. For another
thing he was M.D. You may very probably think that the more impressive MRCS,
LRCP, are better than the modest MD. But MRCS, LROP are the lowest
qualifications on which a doctor can practice, and the vast majority of doctors
manage extremely well for all their practising lives on these. But MD is to
these what a General is to a 2nd Lieutenant, and not a great many doctors go on
to that height. If one sees MD after a doctor’s name, one automatically jumps to
attention, so to speak. Father used to be called is as Consultant on difficult
cases by such great personages as Sir Lauder Brunton and other giants of his
ilk, oven though he was only practicing as a humble G.P. (General Practitioner).
Remember I did two years of my statutory training under Mr. Hillman, in his
shop, and he had known Father and worked with and for him since you and George
were babies, and before I was born. As a pharmacist of the very beet tradition,
Mr. Hillman had the very highest opinion of Father and his prescribing, and he
told me a great deal about him, from that point of view. Father was streets
ahead of his contemporaries with regard to what later became known as Vitamins,
though early in this century they had never been isolated, nor their
potentialities discovered.
With regard to your asking for Calcium Sulphide tablets: I am sorry to say, and
please don’t take offence, I should think the pharmacy staff were left gasping
with amazement and wonderment as to where on earth you had dug out such a
request, Everything is sulphonamides or antibiotics or various preparations of
Penicillin these days, and I doubt if the pharmacist had even hoard of it.
Incidentally, what on earth is your dentist like? I gather that you had an
infected mouth after extractions, or was it a dry socket? I hope for your sake
it was not the latter. I had a dry socket once, and if you want to know what
pure agony is, you try that. Why on earth didn’t your dentist plug the sockets
with penicillin Dental Cones? They clear up any infection in a very short time.
Returning to Father and his family - I know you have never liked the Evans side
of our family, and always felt more affinity with Mother’s side. Her families,
the Vizards and Foleys, were of the finest type of county gentlefolk, upright
and God-fearing and staunch supporters of the Church, but where brains are
concerned they were not in the same street as Father’s side. I grant you that
there were atheists and several first-class rogues in the Evans clan, but for
sheer brainpower and brilliance of intellect they couldn’t be beaten. Remember I
lived, for 4 years with Uncle George, and what I didn’t learn from him about the
family was not worth knowing.
Take Great Uncle Sir John Evans. He was at one time president of every great
intellectual Society in the country, all at the same time. He was also one of
the fathers of modern Archaeology. He was President of the Society of
Antiquaries, Numismatists, Philatelists - you name it he was it.
Our Grandmother, as you know, was a. marvellous water-colour artist, as well as
having one of the finest brains of the family.
Great Uncle Sir John Evans younger brother, Great-Uncle Bassy, was a marvellous
artist, and a brilliant poet, not to mention many other things. “Young Bas” he
was called. I think you met at Uncle George’s on some occasion. I know you
didn’t like him, and Mother couldn’t abide him. He looked like a tramp, was an
un-discharged bankrupt, had been a heavy drinker, but I liked and admired him
immensely. He was always kind and good to me, and I admired him tremendously for
the fact that, having been a heavy drinker, he had, by sheer will-power, trained
himself to drink in strict moderation; a far more difficult feat than eschewing
alcohol entirely. When he was shaved and smartened up in one of Uncle George’
evening suits, en route for some Masonic celebration together (they were both
high-up Masons) you would never have known him for the same men.
I grant you his language was a bit blue at the edges at times, but he never
talked smut for smut's sake, and his stories were so paralysingly funny that to
hear him and Uncle George exchanging stories and reminiscences were an absolute
education, and I used to listen for hours.
I also met Willoughby (Lord) Dickinson, and a handsomer pair than Uncle George
and Willoughby you couldn’t hope to meet. I went out to dinner with them on one
occasion. All three of us in full evening dress, to the Ritz or the Carlton or
some such place, and as we came into the restaurant every head at all the other
tables turned to watch us.
I wasn’t so plain myself either, in those days.
I haven’t mentioned Arthur Evans. His archaeological feats with regard to
Knossos are world famous. Unfortunately I never met him, much to my grief.
Where do you imagine you and I have inherited our not inconsiderable, brainpower
from?
Father had always been the favourite throughout the entire families Evans,
Dickinsons, Grovers, and the clan never forgave Mother for having, as they
thought, dragged him away and buried him in the back of beyond where they could
never see him.
Well, I think this is about enough for now, and I only hope I have given you a
rather different outlook on Father and all that he was. He and I wore very close
to each other, our brains ran on the same lines, far more so than I ever was
with Mother, much as I loved her.