Volume III
May 1840
1840, May 1st - St Phillip and St James. We breakfasted at ½
past 7 in order that the children and a dozen others might set off in good time
to St Amaro, where they were to spend the day, and that we might go to
Church at 9. then in spite of the rain and wind, which were both considerably
abundant, Julia and I set off after them in order to take care they got into no
mischief. We were however too late, as they had, we found, already taken
possession of a house belonging to Mr Veitch, and dirtied it from top to bottom,
for which, as we afterwards heard, the person who had let them in was
discharged. The rain was fortunately not too heavy to prevent our enjoying
ourselves immensely out of doors, the children romping and running, and we
quietly reading and listening to their screaming. I did not quite finish May
of Guise, and we reached home about 7 not too tired. It was fortunately dusk
as we passed through the town, for we were mudded from top to bottom. Mr Hewson
had been spending the day.
May 2nd - John Smith called and victimised me. Bella went out
shopping, and Mr Hewson came home with her, but as Julia was come to read German
he went away. The Tripps and Julia Luxford called. After dinner Bella and I set
off to pay visits. 1st to take a hood she has been making for little
Leacock, and then to the Langfords. On the river side we were encountered by
Messrs Hew and Mont, who walked with us up to the Corvintia, where they
left us. Marion however was so much excited and fatigued, Mrs Wallas said, that
we were not allowed to see her. I believe the poor children are really very ill,
but as she saw Mr Hewson in the morning it will make a good story.
Sunday 3rd - Mr Cunningham called between churches, - saw Mama
in the library. Mrs Temple and the Haywards also came to see her in the
afternoon, so that the gentleman who called home with us were afraid of tiring
her and staid quietly in the drawing room with us looking at the masks. I in one
window endeavouring to entertain Mr Montgomery and Bella in another with Mr
Hewson doing ditto with less trouble probably and more success.
Monday 4th - Rain all day. Nevertheless Julia came to read and
the children walked home with her, and gave Mr Hewson a message from me to
enquire after the Wallases, to which he sent me in answer with his love that
they were better. We also went to the work women.
Tuesday 5th - Miss Dick called and baby Leacock and
Grand-Grarind Clara and I went out riding alone, as on our way we met the Shores
with whom I had intended to ride going to pay visits. We went round St
Antonio and returning by the Angustias saw Louisa and Richard just
setting forth, so I went with them round the river and then home. Bella and
Harriet went to pay sundry visits, and were now admitted at the Torrintia
and found the children really indisposed. Fanny drank tea with Mrs Wynter who
was very kind to her.
Wedenesday 6th - Mr Hewson called, although still too poorly
to read, in connection of which I let him off much more easily than I otherwise
should for this impertinent message, but even so I said enough to make him
extremely angry, and he said he thought his message was a fit answer to mine,
which I of course would not allow. I then attached him about sincerely again,
and told him I was always inclined to say of him as Maria said of the Abbé de
Boisguerin, so that by the tine I thought proper to leave the room his
feelings of anger were considerably excited towards me. Bella went at 3 with
Miss Ross to get flowers at the Convent, and I after waiting till the last
moment in hope of getting the Dart Letters before I set off, went to
Church with Fanny. Mr Hewson walked with us home, and we made it up and as usual
are better friends than ever. He apologised for his message as I thought it
impertinent, tho’ he still could not think so. The father’s letters are
uninteresting, ours not so. Mine were from Annie Evans and Phelps, the former
containing the interesting intelligence that Anne Worthington is engaged to John
Thorpe, that Jack is going to learn paper making of Uncle John, but not one word
of or from Joseph. We also hear that Robert Dawson is returned to England and
has been to see Grandmama. Kitty’s letters show signs of improvement both in
style and sentiment. It is time as she is now 16. we went to the Haywards to
communicate the news and found only Eliza at home, the others being gone to
visit Mrs Wynter. Mr Hewson just as we were departing, returned from the
Torrentia, so staid some time talking in the passage, and called out of the
window after us to know if we did not wish to hear how our friends were. Mrs
Hayward begged us to stay to tea as there was a large party of children
assembled to celebrate Ellen’s birthday, but as we had received the strictest
orders from Mama not to stay, we had a good excuse for coming away.
Thursday 7th - Mr Hewson being unable, Mr Montgomery as his
custom is took possession of his pony to pay visits, and came to see us. Mr
Luxford also called and staid to tea, from which I went to bed with a
stomach-ache. Bella had a slow ride with the Carters and Miss Prevost.
Friday 8th - Mr Hewson called in the morning, but he is still
very poorly. Bella went to Church, the Torrentia, and Mrs Wynters, I
being unable to go, for my stomach becoming much worse I got into bed, thinking
that the most comfortable place. James procured the Inheritance from the
rooms, but I was in such horrible agonise that I did not get through much of it,
and was much rejoiced when night come, for then being better I slept.
Saturday 9th - Better and up at 11, and finished the
Inheritance which I like much better than when I last read it.
Sunday 10th - On our way from morning church we went in to the
Leacocks to procure some more volumes of Mrs Sherwood, which I got to comfort me
being sick. Mr Pickens called and staid with me in the library while the others
went to Church. After I had read prayers we sat on the sofa and he talked very
interestingly about his past life, saying what a wretch he had been till he had
stayed with a charming family called Taylor etc. and also gave it as his opinion
that theatres, even as they now are abused in London, were productive of great
good to the people, which opinion we discussed very amicable till they returned.
He staid to tea, tho’ hardly recovered from an attack which has confined him to
bed several days, so we read all quietly.
Monday 10th - Bella rode with Miss Cunningham, and I went to
ask Miss Ross to come tomorrow. Marion rode by my side, but said nothing
particular. A little before 7 Fanny and I set off to go to the Haywards, calling
on our way at the Blandys, where we saw Anne. At the Hawyards we heard that Mr
Goodall, the musician going out to Calcuta in the Mountaineer, whose performance
we had come to hear, was going to the Lillies, Thither we therefore went,
including Mr Bernard, and after waiting some time the gentleman (who by the bye
is not particularly a gentleman) appeared, accompanied by Harry Young, and
followed by Ricards, so their having devoured a second edition of tea, the
performance began. He played several pieces of Hers and one terrifically hard of
Thalberg, who is his favourite performer. I maintain against ( who came in from
drinking tea at the Lowes, while we were in the middle of the Septete) that
Duarte could not play his music, and that altogether he is not such a good
musician, nevertheless his playing gives me pleasure, much noise and many notes,
but not much music. We played and Julia sung a little between while to relieve
our ears, and we did not come away till past 11. Papa had been at the Club and
listening under the Selbys windows all the time.
Tuesday 11th - Mama having knocked herself up yesterday, is
knocked up today, but would get up. Edward Licic came to practice with me, and
Fanny and Mrs Sheppard and Mrs Shore called and Miss Dick to practise for her
benefit tonight. Bella went with me to the Hawyards, where I left her to walk in
the garden and afterwards home with Mr Hewson, who however being warned that the
parents are not pleased at certain reports which they have heard, returned home
before turning round the Carmo. Julia and I meanwhile went to call on Mrs
Wynter, but she not being at home we walked on for some time, she as usual
lecturing me for Bella’s misdemeanours, while I laboured in vain to prove to her
that a very sober and sensible friendships could subsist between a lady and
gentleman of ages of Bella and Mr Hewson. We found Mrs Wynter pretty well and
cheerful, but as three is an awkward number, the conversation was not very
brilliant, and I was not particularly sorry that we were obliged to return soon
in order to dress. I called on my way for Anne Blandy, who staid with me while I
dressed, and then we descended to the drawing room where we found assembled Miss
Dick, for whose benefit we have this additional concert. The Araujos, Marion
Wallas, Mrs and Miss Ross, Mr Montgomery, Mrs Park, Lewises and some husbands.
We had most villainous music, Mr Lowe having come at the last moment to stay he
was too ill to come. Mama was still too weak to perform, Mrs parker too hoarse
to sing much, and Miss Dick’s flashes more hideous and out of tune than ever.
Nevertheless many were much pleased, especially the Miss Lewises with Mr Dick. I
was utterably before, and rejoiced beyond measure when the people departed.
Fanny sung Mr Pickens’ parody on the sea with great éclat. This and the
slaughtering of an unhappy cockroach were the only exciting incidents.
Wednesday 15th - Mr Wynter paid a long visit, and was very
amiable in beginning us to make his house our home if we ever have occasion.
Fanny and I on our way to Church encountered Mr Hewson, who rode by our side to
the turning, which I don’t at all approve, but as he had no one to hold his
horse and was very nice I cannot but forgive him. He said he had a fight in
store for me, but could not tell me in public. Mr Lowe came to practise with
Miranda and Agostinho, and while waiting for them gave us a long lecture on the
prayer for the dead in the Communion Service, the existence of which we had none
of us before be aware of, and I was the only one convinced that we do actually
pray for departed souls. They played all the Trios, and I hardly ever enjoyed
music so much. I read nearly all the time. They went away about 11.
Thursday 14th - The Wallases called, and I walked up with
Marion to try and persuade her mother to allow her to come tomorrow, but was
unsuccessful, as Mr Wallas is just taken ill, and Jane not well enough to be
left alone. Fanny and I then walked down with Marion to drink tea with Mrs
Wynter, where we found Mrs Park paying a visit, and as she much to our disgust
and amazement, took off her bonnet and invited herself to tea, we had a very
bothered evening. Poor Mrs Wynter happens to have rather a dislike to her, and
has never been at all intimate with her, so was quite dumfounded at her
impertinence. We played till ½ past 8, when she much to our relief took her
departure, and Marion Wallas soon after doing the same, the few minutes that
remained before Papa come to fetch us were very nice. She was quite
affectionate.
Friday 15th - Messrs Leacock and Willie Lealy called and
P.P.C. and I entertained them in the drawing room. Bella and Mr Hewson in the
library. He has not been well, and now looks not so. Mama and I went to Church
and on my return I finished a long letter to Kitty and then dressed for the
largest company and the best concert altogether that we have had, i.e,
Musicians, Dicks, Parks, Haywards, Carters, Selbys, Tripps, Mrs Johnson, Lydia
Luxford, Messrs Hewson, Cossart, Picken, Higgs, Miss Ross, Shores etc. many of
these however came after tea, so that all the ladies were able to sit down to
the table, and the gents were surely too happy to wait on them. I was very happy
but talked to no one much. I sat a few minutes on the sofa with Mr Hewson, as
according to the new order he is to cut Bella in public, and he told me the
fight was not really a fight, but he wanted to talk to me of the aspect of
affairs. This however we could not do now as our conversation being in whispers
might if longer continued have attracted some attention. The poor little man is
much shocked at a parody entitled “Those a blue rosettes” which Fanny and Eliza
Hayward had been concocting. A few flashes from Miss Dick when every one was
gone were the only rubbish of the evening, and these we endured the more
patiently, reflecting that they were, oh happiness, to be the last. None of us
in bed till one.
Saturday 16th - Mr Cunningham to breakfast, and took home his
sister and Mr Hewson soon after. I was sick and obliged to lay down all day
reading Columbus. In the evening I persuaded Bella to ride, and she came
rather early and much distressed at having met no one but the Shores and Mr
Hewson, who galloped past. Oh the ill regulated mind that can’t enjoy a solitary
ride! I don’t can’t, at least not much.
Sunday 17th - Still so sick that Mama would not let me go to
Church, so I staid in bed till they were all gone, when I read prayers in the
library with Ruppel. After evening Church we went to the burial ground to wait
till Mrs Wynter should be ready for us, but I presently becoming dead went with
the children to Miss Cunnigham’s room which we found, snugly to wait there. We
staid from 6 till 7 with Mrs Wynter, but being so many and Mr Shore also there,
nothing very affecting was said or done, neither was there at our leave-taking
of the Cunninghams.
Monday 18th - I finished a letter to Annie Evans, and the Dart
sailed taking with her Wynters, Cunninghams, Dicks, etc all the people we have
at all cared for with one exception. Arabella came to go with us to the bonnet
woman’s, whither we were also accompanied by Mr Hewson, who met us on the
riverside, and then to Rope Cottage and the Angustias, where we deposited
Arabella and the returned – not through the Carreira. We were all so
tired that our conversation when I joined them was not very animated, but I
believe he had not been slow before. Arabella had been very nice, and gave me
much good advice which I should be too happy to follow if I but knew how. Mr
Picken drank tea. The children sang, and I went to bed.
Thursday 19th - I practised for nearly 3 hours, so was rather
headachy, but supposing the air would do me good I set off on Earl Grey at ½ to
4, and taking up Arabella on the way we had a charming ride towards Praya Bay,
our conversation turning chiefly on offers, declarations, and such like. We had
just turned round a little hill we went over to look at a view when we suddenly
came upon Mr Hewson, who being on his way from the
Serra d’ Agua
had seen us at a distance
and rushed away from his party to join the grey horse. I uttered such a scream
of delight when I thus so unexpectedly saw him quite close to me that I fear he
must have though it incorrect, but he rode with me all for having a headache
which no one else would even have found out, and was immensely distressed at
hearing Jacinto was not going in the Aquia, but on this subject we could
not speak much as Arabella not being much edified with Mr Simpson’s conversation
had joined us, tho’ she afterwards told me she fell back when she saw we were
talking secrets. She went home with him to fetch some things she had left
behind, and then back again as far as the Haywards, where I sent back my horse
and went to fetch Bella as we had before arranged.
Wednesday 20th - Mr Hewson called and various other visitors,
none of them I saw, being as usual engaged in practising and afterwards in
writing this. Bella and I after Church went shopping with the Haywards, and on
our way home we met Arabella and Mackworth, with whom we turned back to the
bonnet woman’s and Mackworth staid to tea.
Thursday 21st - Mackworth was here long before 6 but Bella not
being ready he had to wait a considerable time. Fanny and I set off walking at
6, and were both very tired when at the Tanquinhos we were overtaken by
the riders, who gave us their horses on which we soon reached the Palheiro,
where we breakfasted outside the gates, as the order had not yet been procured.
We employed ourselves till the children and Anna brought the order at 12 o’clock
in reading being sheltered from the wind by a screen of shawls we had put up
against some pine trees, which grew very conveniently for the purpose. I
finished Lady Blessington’s Governess, which I think one of the vulgarest
books I ever had the ill fortune to read. Soon after our admission into the
Palheiro, and just as we had comfortably arranged ourselves under some
trees, Mama and Mr Hewson appeared bringing with them all the Packet letters and
papers. He has almost resolved to stay the summer, as his friends do not press
him to come home. All the news, of which we have not much, being discussed, and
the papers read, I set forth with the Lady of the Mannor to wander alone,
leaving Bella and Mr Hewson under the trees, and Mama and the children walking
in another direction. We dined about two in the dining under the trees, as
besides the wind, which was very high, would have blown all the food away. The
Papa came up with the Florence letters which had also come in today, and these
contained rather more news than the others, and a few orders. The greater part
of Grey’s, Mama Evanses, and Aunts Grover and Fanny were read aloud pro bono, so
I don’t know if poor Mr Hewson was much bored with hearing all the family
history. He said he was not. This ceremony having been performed, Papa and Mama
went to walk round the Quinta, and Ruppel to ride the pony. They also
called on Mr Hewson to go with them, but on my representing to him that he had
much better stay with us he cut the others, and we had a nice walk together. I
walked in front at first, but Bella presently sitting down called on me to have
a discussion on Novels, to which I readily consented, but to our mutual disgust
we found that our opinion on the subject so nearly agreed that no fighting was
practicable, so after walking up and down a little we both set to abuse Bella
and walk to the house. There we found the others arrived, and tho’ no one
scolded him for not going with them he insisted on telling Mama that Mary
thought it quite incorrect for him to go and flirt with Ruppel so he had been
obliged to stay with us. I rode down to the Tanquinhos, where I
surrendered my horse to Bella, but nevertheless kept in front of her and Mr
Hewson nearly the whole way, tho’ they tried to overtake me. We did not reach
town till dark – very imprudent – having all, I think enjoyed themselves.
Friday 22nd – Very stiff with walking down hill, but not very
tired. As Mr Hewson was driving with the Wallases, he I suppose had no time to
come and enquire after us. We did not go to Church but prepared some things for
the evening, Rupel being rather knocked up with her expedition. Our party was
not numerous, which was all the better, as we were all a little tired. It
consisted besides the regular people of Carters, Mr Hewson (who might perhaps
also be called a regular person) Mr Bernard, Louisa and Mackworth, Jacinto,
Peter Cossart etc, the music was very good except Egmont, which Mr Lowe played
villainously. I played Fidelio better than I ever did before, and tho’ no one
told me so the applause of my own heart, as must be in all well regulated minds,
was reward enough. They played two trios, and there was beautiful singing from
the Creation. Mr Lowe had arranged “The Heavens are telling” with accompaniments
for the flute and violoncello, which was a great improvement. I talked a little
to Mr Fitz James and Major Lucas, on whom Papa has just called, as they are
going to the Rabaçal together, and a good deal to Mr Hewson, who trough
some misunderstanding, whether wilful or not I cannot tell, imagined that Bella
wished him to cut her entirely this evening. He did nothing but lamented his
hard fate, and say that anyone who had any knowledge of human nature could not
be deceived by such a proceeding, and he was really so angry or sulky or
something that even after the people were gone he did not speak one word to her,
although we staid up more than half an hour, and met on the stair stone going to
bed, where we generally have a long and animated conversation.
Saturday 23rd - Though very sleepy, not
having been in bed till much past 1, I was down punctually at 8 to wish Mr
Hewson Goodbye, as he is obliged to go home to write letters, but Mama was as
punctual as I. The wind blew so tremendously all the day that the Agina
could not sail, nor anyone go out, so we staid at home and after dinner I read
part of the Widow Married.
Sunday 24th - The greater part of the congregation, that ought to
have been, were too afraid of showing their legs to venture out in the wind,
which was still very high, so the Church was rather empty. We spoke to the
Wilsons for some time, who returned yesterday from the Rabaçal and St
Vicente, and were, as might be supposed, nearly blown down the Corral. They only
set off on Friday, so they had made the most of their time going by Calheta
to the Rabaçal and St Vicente the 1st day, and home again the
next. After evening service the wind having somewhat abated we walked up to the
Covent with papa, and then he and Mr Hewson left us to walk on the Praça,
and we walked up to the Angustias with the Shores, I again discussing
pretty girls with Richard, and we both came to the conclusion that they were all
uninteresting except Arabella.
Monday 25th - Jacinto came to take leave, and seemed much oppressed
with grief, but we were not all so, for which our parents at dinner scolded.
Agina sailed at 4 with him and MR Hewson, Bernard and Simpson and 30 others.
Bella and I went out after dinner and met the Haywards, with whom we walked on
the river side and to a work womans, and nearly to the Torrienta, where
they left us, and we paid our charming friends a visit, but could extract
nothing interesting from Marion. She has grown so horridly reserved, but I
believe it is because she has nothing to tell. She read us part of a letters
from Catherine lecturing her for having fallen in love, how little she knows of
the state of affection of either party! Mr Hewson had called during our absence,
and Mrs Luxford, who staid to tea which I made for her, leaving Bella and Fanny
to spend the evening at the Rosses.
Tuesday 26th - Mr Hewson came to help Mama and Bella sort thread,
while I entertained Mr Picken in the drawing room, or rather he entertained me
with a number of letters he has received from friends in England, especially
from a charming young lady called Sophia Taylor, who he says is very like me.
They staid to dinner, and very soon after Mrs Arabella and Richard Shore called
for Fanny and me to ride. We could willingly have dispensed with the company of
the elder lady for she is an undeniable bore, and makes a point of interrupting
anyone she sees peacefully talking. We galloped furiously almost all the way to
the Brazen Head, for Earl Grey was quite mad, and continually jumped up into the
air in a manner that greatly alarmed poor Mrs Shore. In the intervals of
galloping Arabella and I discoursed as usual on Mr Hewson. She is very anxious
to know when the denouement is to take place, and will hardly believe my
repeated assurance that there never will be any. She also thinks it very
improper of me to allow him to call me Mary, which I mean to tell him, as I do
most things of the kind. We called on the Huddlestons coming back, and at home I
found Miss Southcote and Pauline, who soon after departed, and I spent the
evening making thread papers for the maids. Mama went to bed rather poorly.
Wednesday 27th - Miss Tripp called about a bonnet, so Bella and I
went with her to order it, and then shopping till dinner, tho’ we bought
scarcely anything. We passed by the Haywards, but the poor gentleman is sick, so
he could not come with us, tho’ he saw us. Fanny and I called on Mrs Stoddart,
who was not at home, and the Morrises, who were on our way to Church, from which
we brought Arabella to consult Bella about a frock. Mr Lowe, Mr Park and Julia
came to practise the Creation and Glee. Mrs Lowe also came to listen, after
having been at Church, for the first time since her illness. Mr Lowe gave them
all a capital lesson, and they sung very prettily.
Thursday 28th - Ascension Day. I worked and heard Charley read till
Church time. No one having been at Church on Sunday morning to hear notice given
of service today, those who were not gone into the country staid away from
Church through ignorance, so that we had but a small congregation though there
was full service and the Sacrament administered. At home we found Mr Hewson
reading the Quarterly. He had been to Church but had not staid. Why does
he never stay? All the rest of the Haywards are gone to St Antonio da Serra,
but he was too sick. We had such a bad dinner that Mama could not ask him to
stay, but immediately after he returned to ride up with Papa to shew him his
house and ask his advice, which Papa gave in favour of it. We walked to the
bottom of the Incarnation Hill with Sophia Tripp after evening service, and Mr
Hewson came out of his house to walk with us. We walked once up and down the
river, and met the Wallases riding, and told them not to come next Friday. Then
as he was very much surprised at a speech Papa had made at his house, i.e., that
they would be neighbours in the summer, as if he had any other reason for taking
it but to be near us. And I do believe he almost if not quite means what he
says, and as I told him, I am beginning to think him less insincere that I did.
He says he knows Bella better than me, and that Bella ought to know him, so I
want him to tell us our characters, but I am sure I could not tell him this. I
only know that I like him very much. When it became too cold he went home, and
we called on Mrs Stoddart, who we found in the patio, but did not go up,
and Mackworth drank tea.
Friday 29th - Misses Forrest and Chapman came early in the morning
and staid an immense time bothering. Mr Hewson paid Papa a long visit to talk
about furniture, which he cannot get, so Papa says he will lend him his if Bella
and I will go with him and make the inventory, but this would not be correct. We
received a charming letter from Mrs B. Smith from Teneriffe, and also some from
the Rosses. Fanny and I went to Church. We had a very large and “flash” party
consisting of Cookes, Shores, Rosses, Blandys and all the general people,
besides a number of young men in Mr Lowe’s train. Mr Lowe insisted in having tea
before the music, so we did not begin this till past 8, and consequently did not
break up till nearly 12. We had a charming concert, a trio no. 3 which I like
the best all things, a symphony of Hayden, Faust overtures to Egmont and
Leonors, the Heavens are telling, Winter Wind, Southern Brezzes, and two solos,
Mrs Park and Miss Forest, the latter the only imperfect thing in the evening,
for everyone else surpassed themselves. I never saw Arabella look so beautiful,
she being well dressed in white. Mr Fitz-James was evidently much smitten, and
no wonder, and they were devoted to one another the whole evening, much to the
amusement of Mr Hewson, who thinks Arabella Fitz-James would sound very pretty.
Mr Bayman and Anne Blandy, Bella and Mr Hewson, Mr Biggs and Miss Ross, were
also very happy and so made us lookers on so. I talked to no one in particular
but to everyone in general and Mr Hewson sat by me a little when he could not
get to Anne Blandy, who he rather admires I think. We staid talking an immense
time after they were all gone about the furniture, and all laughed a good deal,
being also very happy, and were not in bed till 1.
Saturday 30th - Mrs Shore, Mr Freeman and Mr Tripp called, and Mr
Huddleston to take leave. Mr Hewson and Malcolm went away early to write letters
and leave us to ditto. At ½ past 3 Bella and Fanny rode up to Mr Hewson’s house
with him, and being overtaken by Richard Shore they then went towards the Brazen
Head and had an agreeable and satisfactory ride. Arabella came with Mackworth to
see me, and as she wanted a bouquet to wear at night at Sir W. Cook’s I went
with her to the Haywards to procure one, and staid in the garden till Julia and
Mr Montgomery had made one for her and her mother. We then proceeded to the
Angustias, where we found Mrs Shore in a great fidget because it was so
late, Louisa reading a novel, and the maids busy, so that the task of dressing
Arabella devolved upon me, who did my best and actually put the flowers in her
hair, and they did not come down. They being departed, Mackworth walked with me
to the Haywards, where I dismissed him, and went to dress the young ladies who
were also going to a party tonight. It being late, when they were ready Mr
Hayward insisted on walking home with me and I refused his and Mr Hewson’s
pressing invitation to stay to tea, which I should not have thought quite
correct, all the female member of the family being absent.
Sunday 31st - Mr Hewson walked home with me after morning church, but
would not come in, and in the afternoon Marion was ordered to go home
immediately. We three sat at the top of the river, and being three were not so
nice as we might have been, especially as Bella being sulky, or at least
appearing so, I had to talk all the time with Mr Hewson, and we talked rather
seriously about prayers for the dead, Mrs Sherwood’s theory of the final
destruction of sin, etc in all of which things we differed, which was consoling,
after having found nothing to quarrel about for so long. We staid out till past
7.
Monday June 1st - I was the whole morning altering a dress, so could
not finish a rather short letter to Mama, and at 3 the Flower sailed with all
the Valle people , Mr Marshall etc. Miss and Sophia Tripp came to look at
their father from our turret, and the Westdrops also calling, Bella and I were
not able to leave the house till near 5, when we proceeded to the Maria girls,
instead of Friday. We also waited some time on the riverside for the Wallases,
who were, as we rightly supposed, riding with Mr Hewson, for the same purpose.
He afterwards overtook us on our way ride tomorrow. She had before informed me
that it was not correct for young ladies and gentleman to ride without a
chaperone, which is humbug. We staid some time in the garden with the Haywards
and Mr Hewson walked a little way with us. This was to have been the day of
February, but we have agreed to put it off till the 2nd May next
year, as my gloves have not yet been procured.
Tuesday 2nd - Mama very poorly, not up till 11. Some very pretty
dresses came for us to see, but Mama would not let us decide whether to have
them till Mr Hewson should give his opinion, which is not wise, for though his
opinion on many points is to be attended to, yet in dress it is to be despised.
They are pink too, and he only likes blue, and I am afraid we are not Lady
Angustias in his eyes quite, so of course he wont like them. He arrived
first, and did admire them, so of course we are to have them. Mr Montgomery, Mrs
Arabella and Richard Shore soon after appeared, and as soon as we could procure
our horses we set off to the Mount, calling on our way at Mr Hewson’s house that
is to be. It seems a nice place, but as it is being now new floored, with
whitewashed and in various other ways mended, it at present looks rather
disconsolate. Bella was riding a rather slow going pony which kept an immense
way behind the others, so she and Mr Hewson stop at the gate, and sent up Manoel
with the key to the Curral, by which the rest of us rode and walked down
through the woods to Bella’s bower, where we took her up and then after a little
more walking returned to town. Everybody very happy, but I rather uncomfortable
riding with everyone and no one.
heart I am afraid I think a great deal too much of him, but I told him not this,
but began abusing him with all my might, for he wanted to know what I thought of
him. I said I thought he was inconstant and insincere (in manner, for I am not
to think him really insincere any more) and I said that in another year he would
go away from Madeira and forget us all, although as his fickle custom he likes
is all very much now, and that “other maids in other lands” would soon drive us
all from his recollection. So of course he called me wicked and all that kind of
thing, and declared that when he made friends, for I knew the basis on which he
desired to form all his friendships, they were for life, that out of Madeira he
had only two friends, and that every one else he did indeed forget soon,
although he might enjoy their society for the time. Then I said that this was
the case with every one, that he liked to be with every one and to talk nonsense
to every one, but that he was incapable of feeling real friendship or something
of this kind. At which he was much more angry and said I was contradicting
myself because just before I had professed to believe how much he liked Bella,
and that I did not know him in the least if such was my opinion of him, but I
know him better than he thinks, which perhaps he guesses. So we made it up and I
asked him what he thought the worst feature in my character, and he said
contempt for the opinion of others, which I denied, as one of my greatest humps
is love of approbation, but then he said it was only the love of my friends I
cared for, and not general opinion, and the thinks I am a little selfish but had
not found out that I was jealous, altho’ he says it is his worst fault. His
horse having cast a shoe, he could not go all the way home with me, and we
parted at the beginning of this discussion of character, but we hoped to renew
it some day, and he says he wants me to know his so much and will answer any
question I choose to ask him about himself. We parted charming friends after a
more charming ride, especially the latter part, but he does not like me so well
as I like him, but he does like me a little I think. It was not late when I got
home, but I staid so long talking to Bella that most of the company was
assembled before I entered the drawing room, where I found a numerous and
brilliant assembly, 45 people – Shores, Wallases, Blandys, Wardropes, Rosses,
Hewsons, Haywards, and various men besides five Miss Tripps, who sat in a row
and spoke not all the evening, tho’ Susan excited much admiration from Richard
Shore. Bella was not allowed to leave her bed. Even so she did not hear much of
the music but had frequent visits from her friends, who enlivened her solitude.
Agostinho, horrid man, was practising for the TE Deum, so we could have neither
Trios nor overtures, but the singing was splendid, and so was the Patelieu, the
Mount of Clives, Egmont and another solo by Mr Lowe. Lulu and Dussek’s duet also
went very tolerably without him, and very one said they were very happy. Mr
Hewson did not speak to me once hardly, nor much to any one, but kept fluttering
from one young lady to another, and making his peace also with M. who had cut
him rather – reason unknown. I should have been happy of the violincello had
been there, but it bothers me so when anything goes wrong. All the Haywards
except Mr Hewson, who was not going, begged very much of me to go to Caniçal
tomorrow, and I consented, but Mama half refused because Bella’s sick, so
should I be, etc. when everyone was gone Mr Hewson and I stood such a long time
talking so deliciously under the clock, and I was so amused at Malcolm going
away and leaving us alone as if I had been Bella or Marion. He begged me now to
go tomorrow, for he said he would go if I went, and as we are both sick we could
sympathise with one another, so this of course made me wish to go more than ever
till I presently began to consider that we should not be able to renew our
discussion in the boat, or even among the rocks, as we were so scolded at the
Gorgulho, and also that without Bella was much better I should not like to
leave her all alone. These considerations much damped my ardour, especially as I
might perhaps have a ride of I did not go, so we came to bed and talked not on
the staircase.
engaged to go with us) and then they stood talking so long at the top of the
stairs that I was again obliged to sent them away, at which he again looked much
astonished, so I don’t know of he is gone away in a rage. I wish he would not be
different at different times. He never said one word about renewing the
discussion.
Friday 5th - We began to dust the books and scour the shelves in the
library and at 11 I wrote to ask Julia to go with me to the Te Deum as I had
yesterday told Mr Hewson I was afraid Mama would not judge it correct for us to
go alone. Presently after I had put on my bonnet and was awaiting the answer Mr
Bunter came to pay a visit, and hearing I was in distress for a chaperone to the
Catedral he offered to take charge of me if it was etiquette so to do, but as I
preferred going with Mr Hewson I refused and kept watching out of the window
till I heard the pony’s foot when I ran out and found Mr Hewson with a note from
Julia saying she could not go as I thought I could not I went up and tool off my
bonnet and deposited Mr Hewson in the library where he was presently joined by
Bella, who left her room without permission. Mr Bunter being gone we went down
and all our endeavours to obtain a chaperone having failed, Mr Hewson persuaded
us that it would do his head no harm, for it was out of consideration for him
that we did not accept his offers of service before and not from prudery which
Mama says she hates and so do I, and we set off with Clara and Charley and after
some trouble obtained the key of the gallery which we found almost empty with no
English, and so we had excellent cool seats and were very happy listening to the
music which was very pretty and seemed to be a collection of all the tunes that
were ever invented. It was not over till ½ past 1 and he walked home with me
altho’ engaged to dine at 1 as they are going to ride to Câmara de Lobos
and he asked me to go too only I could not because of the library. He said he
did not think it selfish of me to make him go with me so I hope he did not and
he was very nice so I have quite forgiven him for yesterday. He made me take
hold of his arm of which I was much ashamed but as we come by a back way no one
saw us so it did not signify. We worked all day intensely hard at the library
and went to bed entirely dead. Miss Ross called in the morning and was so sorry
she had not known I was in want of a chaperone as she would have been so happy
to have gone with me more than I should with her.
Saturday 6th -Today we cleaned the bookcase in the little drawing
room and the drawers in the library which while we were doing Mr Hewson paid
Bella a visit in the drawing room which no one knew of but me, and I heard him
come. At three o’clock I was by appointment at the Angustias whence after
a little delay I set off with Richard and Arabella round St Antonio. I was much
amused all the way with poor Richards in-effectual endeveaours to discover what
we were talking about his apologise for his deafness. We were fighting (A. and
I) the whole way. She will not be persuaded that I am not in love with Mr Hewson
or at any rate that he is not with Bella, and that my “serene and benevolent
countenance” is caused by my interest in their happenings. She will neither
believe that I run no chance of forfeiting my respectability in his eyes or the
eyes of the world by allowing him to call me Mary, to ride with me and walk
alone etc. which is all intolerable humbug for I know he has as much of not
decidedly more respect for me than for any other young lady in Madeira and I
know he neither thinks me bold nor brazen as Arabella almost thinks he does. On
our return we found the Rabaçal party already arrived having enjoyed
themselves beyond measure though having suffered vicissitudes enough one would
think, to kill 10 ordinary mortals, such as being kept out of their house till
11 o’clock at night and being entirely devoured with bugs and fleas when they
did make good their entrance by the help of a hammock pole, with which after ½
hour of their united exertions they broke open the door. Jack Sheppard would
hence have been an invaluable person. All the story having been well discussed,
Mama took me to call on Mrs Carter who was at Miss Prevost’s when we afterwards
went and staid an immense time till I was on the point of falling asleep. We
descried Charles Hayward and Murdoch on the Praça at some distance, and
as it become dark Mama hailed them and made them escort her home, and we retired
to rest nearly dead.
Sunday 7th - Bella not able to go to Church so Mr Hewson came and
read Keble to her while we were receiving the Sacrament which I think she
ought not have allowed, and he staid to dinner but did not walk to Church with
me because Papa called him back just as I was going out of the door. The Shores
having been visited by the Wallases and being much charmed with them (altho’
till now Arabella has always been loud in her abuse of them) walked with us on
the river side all in a heap, which was very uncomfortable so when we had been
round once Mr Hewson and I left them to walk farther and came home. He was very
nice but we had not time to continue our discussion much, but he told me he did
not think my selfishness “disagreeable obtrusive” which I was afraid he did, and
we hope to continue the subject tomorrow for he says he is so very anxious that
I should ask him all and everything I want to know about him, and let him also
find out a little more about me. Mr Picken and the Haywards were there and were
very tiresome, or else I was bored or tired, and I was glad when they departed.
I am to ride with him to Camacha tomorrow if Eliza goes to stay and bring
him back –very nice.
it is my greatest fault. He thinks I have a remarkably sweet temper, not from
stupidity and indifference but from principle, and he would hardly believe I was
naturally sulky, which I am glad of as it shows I hope that I have in great
measure overcome this. I was also more fortunate in my guesses about him that I
was yesterday. He owns to his natural passionateness, but he hopes he has much
subdued it, and he also agrees that his principles which are only lately
acquired have not yet entirely changed his practice, which he acknowledges has
not been exactly all he could wish, and how should it with the education he has
had? An only and spoilt child and a gay and dissipated youth, till illness I
believe, for he did not exactly tell me so, led him to think more seriously, so
that he says I must make great allowances for him and so I will. And he thinks
that his principles will not last only as long as his sickness but all his life
long, as he is convinced that they alone can make him happy and good. When we
were tired, at least not tires, of talking of ourselves, we went on to Bella who
he knows so much more thoroughly than he does me and he said things so true of
her that I was quite astonished, but he hopes that in the summer we shall have
more opportunities of knowing one another better, and I hope so too, for surely
there is no place so nice to talk on as those pretty woods. I told him I liked
people for scolding me, and he said that if he was given to like people for the
same reason he ought to like me very much “which I do”. It is the first time he
has ever called as “dear”, which he has done to every other young lady in
Madeira that he knows as well, for a long time. While we were in Bella’s garden
Papa sent for us to be quick home as it become late, so we proceeded to the
house where we found Mama just arrived from the Lowes, where she had been dining
and had found them so agreeable that she could not leave them before. She and
Papa then came down, letting us go on in front very quietly talking, principally
of Arabella. He had no idea before that she knew Latin and Greek and wrote
beautiful poetry. We called on the Tripps and heard that Sophy had a bad attack
of fever so that we did not get into town till some time after the others,
having both enjoyed ourselves immensely.
Tuesday 9th - Mama and Papa went out to pay visits and Mr Hewson came
to read to, but fought with, Bella till dinner. In the afternoon as Mama was
going to read Henry 8th I persuaded her to let Bella write to
her accustomed audience, and as Mr Hewson considers it highly incorrect for
young ladies and gentleman to write, Bella and I concocted a note which we
thought could shock his notions of propriety beginning thus “Miss Phelps
presents her comps. To Mr Hewson etc, to which he replied in the same strain and
he and Mr Montgomery came about 6. Mr Bayman was pre-engaged. I was so very sick
after tea that I was obliged to go to bed, but the party did not break up till
past 11.
Wednesday 10th - Mr Hewson went away before breakfast to write
letters by a vessel which sailed at 11, but he did not come till 12 in
consequence of a speech Mama made before him about the tiresomeness of Mr Bunter
paying such an early visit, which the poor little man has taken into his head
was meant as a hint to him and we cannot persuade him to the contrary. He said
to Bella “Oh if you knew how much I dislike coming here”, so she insisted on his
coming every morning, and laughed at him most unmercifully I believe, so they
did not read much of Rokeby. I was very sick all day and lay on my bed
and finished Charles V and Columbus, besides reading Humphreys
Clock, which appears most unworthy of Dickens. Mr Picken called with one of
his views of the Rabaçal so I just went down to see it but soon came up
again and immediately after tea went to bed.
Thursday 11th - At 4 o’clock up put on my bonnet and went into the
drawing room on my way out to the Shores. There I found Mr Hewson patiently
looking out of the window and being informed whither I was bound he told me that
Arabella and Richard had just passed the window, so I ran after them and found
that they had given me up as I was so late, and were on their way to the Ropes,
so I joined them, and we paid our visits before we returned to the Angustias,
where I presently found myself comfortably reposing on Arabella’s bed and she
reading to me. While thus peacefully engaged, we were interrupted by the
bursting open of the door and the rushing in of the two Wallases, who staid some
time. Marion taking Ara’s place begged me to enquire of her which of us she
liked best, as she is very anxious to know if she has cut me out yet, but this I
would not very well do, as truth to write I did feel a slight touch of jealousy,
though I believe without cause, for Arabella’s liking for me has gone on so
steadily and unchangingly increasing that I think it is by this time rather too
strong to be spoilt by a young lady of Marion’s character. After they departed
and the Canto was finished, she laid down by me till tea time when Mama
joined the party. She had been riding up to Mr Hewson’s house with him and
Bella, and had been left at the Angustias coming home. The meal being
concluded, Arabella and I returned to our comfortable quarters much to the
disgust of Richard and Mackworth, who insisted that it was very unsociable, but
I was in rather a melancholy mood and Arabella comforted me by bestowing a great
deal of blarney upon me in a very soothing way. Not that she means to say
untruth or more than truth, but her imagination makes her see good qualities in
me which I fear do not really exist. We remained talking very happily till Mama
called me at 11 to walk home with her. I do not think I have yet been able to
convince Ara that I am more in love with Mr Hewson than with her. I forgot to
say that in the morning, while I was doing the border of Mrs Lowe’s hearth rug
with Mama, she told me that she was afraid of Mr Hewson’s imagining she wanted
to catch him, and that was the reason she often did not ask him here when she
otherwise would, and all my demonstrations and arguments were of no avail to
remove this mistaken notion. I even told her of his speech about disliking to
come here, and still she would persist on believing that he thinks or is in
danger of thinking that she is interestedly kind to him, and tho’ she
acknowledges that I may know him individually better than she does, yet that I
am not so well acquainted with the genus as she, for she says she knows that all
young men without exception think that all mothers want to catch them for their
daughters. Such an idea! But I don’t care!
Russel is so soon to depart I was commanded to go and take a last lesson in the
art of making pies and puddings which I did till past 11, when I came and wrote
this, Mr Hewson reading to Bella. The Lowes to dine by previous invitation, and
Mr Hewson on the spur of the moment. The Lowes were very agreeable, but yet we
were slightly slow, and Mr Hewson seemed actually bored and even disgusted with
some very warm expressions in favour of roads, which Mama and Mr Lowe made use
of, and also at Mrs Lowe who turned round to him and gravely inquired if he had
read “Mysteries of Udolphe”, which is or was a very favourite book of
hers. Mr Lowe made me take so much wine with him that I became a headache which
went on increasing all the day. After dinner we all went up to look at Bellas
shells from which Mr Lowe wanted to take some for his collection, and about an
hour after when they were all dispersed as I was coming downstairs Mr Hewson
rushed out of the library where he left Bella to repose and told me to tell him
all Mama had been saying to me in the morning, because Bella wouldn’t. So we
stood in our old fighting place and I told him all nearly in as delicate manner
as I could, but he soon ran down in a fright and said he supposed he should be
scolded for talking to me as he still cannot get the right idea into his head,
i.e, that Mama is afraid of our being too fond of him, and not he of us. The
Lowes went on board the Vernon and he up to his house about 6 and then Mr Picken
came and with the children escorted me to the Haywards, Bella not being well
enough to go. We were not exactly slow but very quiet, all sitting round the
table after tea and discussing novels etc and Julia pouring Eau de Cologne on my
head, and then quarrelling with Mr Hewson for the cork for an hour afterwards.
He had been whispering to me that he wanted so much to speak to me but there was
no opportunity till just as I was going downstairs just behind George, who
walked home with me, when he came and said he wanted to know if Mama would
object his going to read to Bella tomorrow so I said NO, and went on.
Saturday 13th - Mr Hewson in the morning and the Shores being engaged
to ride with Mama at ½ past 11 appeared at 2, causing her to go without any
dinner but some sandwiches. Papa returned from the North about 4 with a bad
cold, they having had continual bad weather and a good deal of rain. He found Mr
Hewson here but was not enraged, this gentleman having lately ordered some wine
which has much increased Papa’s affection for him, which till now has bee
anything but warm. At 6 he left us to go to his house. The wretched Earl Grey
has or pretends to have a sore back, so we have not been able to ride him all
this time. We worked at Mrs Lowe’s rug all the afternoon, and in the evening
drank tea with the Rosses, Mama, the two children and I, Bella being still
indisposed. The Shores were the only people there besides ourselves and
Arabella, and I might have been so happy, only that odious Mr Ross would follow
us wherever we went, for the purpose of telling Arabella that Wordworth and
Byron were fine poets, and the former a better man than the latter. Coming home
however we managed to escape from his and had a nice walk together. She told me
in answer to a question to which Marion told me to ask her that she liked me
much the best and I can’t help hoping that she always will.
Sunday 14th - Two beautiful sermons. In the afternoon we all walked
together for the last time, which consideration made us quite sentimental,
especially Mr Hewson, who was quite pathetic in his lamentations, for he seems
to think he will never be allowed to see us up at the Mount, but I hope and
believe that we shall not be so persecuted as he seems to anticipate. We all
went and sat on the wall at the top of the riverside, except Mr Hewson and
Bella, who was too weak to walk beyond a certain seat half way up. Marion and I
had actually an interesting conversation and not a word of Mr Hewson, who she is
now I believe likes Bella considerably more than her. We kept our spirits a
little by a provoking thing that Marion said. She declared she would tell Mr
Montgomery something I had said, and which I did not choose should be repeated,
so as we were already at the bottom of the Torrentia Hill we all rushed
up it screaming and making a tremendous row, which was most incorrect behaviour,
especially for Sunday, and Mr Hewson stood looking at us in silent horror as
well he might.
Monday 15th - I was all the morning on my knees scouring an old
sickly desk to which I have taken fancy, and comparing myself to Henrietta and
Mrs Robinson, then writing this till dinner, and reading a little to repose
myself and recruit for the fatigues of packing yet to come. After dinner Mama
gave us some table cloths to cut up, which occupied us till 6 so that we did not
set off to the Torrentia till 7, I walking arrived there first, and Bella
who was on the pony some time afterwards, as she went round by the Haywards to
hear about the Caniçal party, which is not to be yet, and Mr Hewson who
had been riding solitary to Camacha walked part of the way with her.
After tea Mrs Wallas was graciously pleased to allow us to go into the
schoolroom, where we sat very quietly and happily after our fatigue, for it had
been very hot, and talking more in the same style as we had at the Mount with
Marion, who I have been for some time persuading myself not to like because
Bella insisted that she cared not for us, which she now allows me much to doubt
so that I permit my inclinations to go as they are naturally inclined. They
forgot to sent for us so they sent us down, and we were not in bed till past 11.
Tuesday 16th - Fanny, Clara, Charley and I went up to the Mount to
breakfast, and had to wait for it till 9. After dusting and arranging my room,
which I did very comfortably. Fanny helping me she henceforth to be my
bedfellow, I found to my surprise and delight that nothing remained for us to do
except just to take care the children did not kill themselves, and give the men
wine, so I quietly read Prolius till dinner time, and then Wallanstein
till near 7, when Bella and Mr Hewson arrive, they having till then looking at
Mr Lowe’s shells, but as they proceeded immediately to he bower I saw no more of
them till he was gone and I took his place there. Mama came up to tea at 9
o’clock and then insisted on Fanny reading the Widow Barnaby to us, which
effectually prevented our going to sleep, which after the fatigue we were
supposed to have endured might have been more advisable.
Wednesday 17th - I taught Charley and with Aninha’s helps cleaned my
desk, which after the operation remained as before. At dinner Mama made known to
us her determination of receiving no visitors in the morning and that she should
tell Mr Hewson so, as there being only one sitting room she could not
conveniently receive him there and she does not approve of Bella playing Patty
out in the garden, in which I think she may perhaps be right, for however
inclined she may most naturally be to take that accomplished young lady for her
model, yet I fear it might not be altogether discreet so to do. So he is to come
in the afternoon and hear Shakespeare. In the afternoon I read aloud a
sentimental poem till interrupted by Miss Berridge and Maria Tripp, with whom
Mama went to walk, and Bella and I in another direction and to watch for Papa,
who presently arrive without any news. We sat in Bella’s arbour till so late
that tea was not concluded till near 9, so I went to bed, it being my practice
to get up here at 5 and walk two hours before breakfast instead of 1.
Thursday 18th - Corpus Christi. It being a holiday Papa remained up
all day, and I having taught Charley walked in the woods till dinner and
finished Mitchell’s Life of Wallanstein, which tho’ interesting is very
oddly written, and contains much abuse of Napoleon, who the author thinks
utterly unworthy of comparison with his here. As I never read a history of
Napoleon and know nothing of him, I cannot tell. Mama and Papa walked together
domestic all the afternoon, and Bella and I watched at the gate till 5 0’clock
for Mr Hewson, who was to have come at 4 but could not on account of the heat.
He had been intensely bored all day at the Selbys, who had assembled a large
party for the whole day for the purpose of seeing a procession, which passed in
a minute and left the unhappy company with nothing to do but yawn and be bored.
They went to the arbour and I stationed myself on a seat a little above for
propriety, and then read nearly a vol. of Kate Leslie, a most disgusting
and vulgar and ill written novel recommended by Fanny, who I should have given
credit for better taste. As it was getting late we then went in search of the
parents, after having encountered he wished them goodbye and departed, after
having been duly informed by Mama of the hours when she would choose to see him.
In spite of my earnest entreaties she would not ask him to spend the day
tomorrow, which would be so nice as till the piano arrives we have plenty of
time.
Friday 19th - Papa departed soon after 6 and I read Carlyle’s
Chartism which alas like his other books I vainly endeavoured to comprehend.
Really the words are so very long and hard, and besides one requires the help of
a German dictionary to put half of them back into their original language, and
after all I don’t the least know what Chartism is, for this indeed he does not
attempt to explain. Charlotte and Gertrude da Câmara came by Harriet’s
invitation to spend two days here. The weather is most exquisitely delicious,
blue sky, warm sun and cool breeze, and the trees and the flowers are so sweet.
It would be impossible I think to be unhappy here, even if one were so inclined,
which I rejoice to say I am not. I always feel so much more innocent and happy
up here than in town, and make such good resolutions to remain so, which the
first opportunity that offers I make a point of breaking, which is wrong and a
pity. This year being older, and, as Mr Hewson says, wiser, I will try to do
better. In the afternoon I read in and about the house, Bella being as usual
fast asleep till Mama called me to go up the Quinta with her, and after
tea I read one of Mrs Sherwood’s alone.
but wish to finish as it is very short, and I like to read one book through of a
man I hear so much about, I was called in to read Mrs Sherwood to Mama
and the children. Bella and Fanny rode to town after dinner, and Mr Ross
accompanied them, he having called on his way down to inform us that Mrs Gordon
was very ill in bed. They drank tea with the Haywards, we but peacefully
finished Frederick Falconer, a very pretty story, and then I walked in
the garden and on my return had the pleasure of finding that some of the Packet
letters had been sent up, i.e, from M.A.F. to me and from Anne Vansittart and
Augusta Nicholl to Bella. Papa presently arrived with very tolerably good news
and also a letter from Anne Evans to me – nice and affectionate but again not a
word of Joseph, which is very unkind.
Sunday 21st - Mama would not let me go to Church, so I staid and said
my catechism with the children as usual, and all the rest of the day peacefully
read Mrs Sherwood, which alas I have now finished, and St Cyprian’s
Treatises, which I don’t like at all, only interrupted by a visit from Mr
Bunter. In the evening I also read some aloud to Mama, who agreed in thinking
the chapter on Virgins impious as well as indecent. Poor little Câmaras not much
edified I much fear.
Monday 22nd - After mending Fanny’s stockings for some time while
Mama read, we were all dragged out to be broiled in the sun while we witnessed
the transfer of some miserable gold and silver fish from one pond to another.
After dinner I dispatched notes and such like to Bella, and begun letters to
M.A.F. Anne and Miss M. and then read St Cyprian, which I think great
humbug, and as Mama took possession of Miss Tripp who called, I went to the
Mirante to wait for Eliza Hayward and Mr Hewson, who Bella had privately
informed me was coming with her. At last they came, but he was horridly stupid
or melancholy, and went away soon after we joined Mama, as it was late, without
giving me an opportunity even of telling him I had a scolding for him. He said
that if Bella was not well enough to got to Camacha, he would not go,
which as I was going was remarkably rude for such a courteous gentleman. Miss
Tripp staid to tea, and thought she departed early we were not in bed till
rather late, as Eliza came into my room and talked for an hour on the all
engrossing topic. She does not think so ill of him as I do for never receiving
the Sacrament, for she says we must make such great allowances, and she thinks
he talks to me and to her and likes us both very much in the same manner.
Tuesday 23rd - I was up and out at 7 notwithstanding my late going to
bed, but I was not able to read much, being called in to write etc, to town, and
other things. The Câmaras went home immediately after breakfast. I gave Eliza
Haynes Bayley’s story to read, and she was as infinitely amused and
interested as we had been at the heroes resemblance to our Frederick. Bella sent
word that she was too ill to go to Camacha, so she is to come up here
today. While I was reading St Cyprian aloud she arrived, but hardly a
moment was allowed us after a three day’s absence, for I was torn from the arms
of my beloved sister to accompany Mama. We met the Shores coming up to see us,
which was a great bore, as we were unable to return with them, and were
compelled to bid adieu to Richard on the high read. We then went down to Mr
Hewson ‘s house, but we found there no one but Maria, as the gents are not to
take up their residence there till tomorrow, so Mama wrote a note asking them to
spend tomorrow at the Mount. The Lowes were out when we arrived at their house,
and we had to wait more than an hour for them, as the note announcing our
intended visit had not reached them. But they were glad to see us, and we being
presently joined by Papa sat down to tea. The conversation was principally, as
usual, relating to the Church, and poor Mr Rally was dreadfully abused, we
taking his part against the Lowes, with whom we fought on every subject that was
introduced. Mama tried to bring in St Cyprian but did not succeed, so
when Mr Lowe took me into another room to look at shells I began talking about
and abusing him, for which he of course scolded and lectured me, saying that his
interpretations of Scripture were the real ones and ours the fanciful, but still
I was unconvinced, and so I am by almost all his arguments. Indeed he is so
violent and goes, I am sure, so much too far in his exclusiveness, that he is
more in danger of o disgusting me as to make me Low Church instead of higher
than I am, which I think is high enough in all conscience. And yet how can one
be disgusted with anything Mr Lowe says or does? Mama and Papa went upwards and
I downwards with only King in the dark night, and I was not in bed till past 12,
not Fanny, who returned from the Rosses where she had been drinking tea about
the same time. Mrs Lowe did not wish me Goodbye at all affectionately.
Wednesday 24th -The heat or anxiety, I know not which, woke us at ½
past 5, so we slept no more, and presently rose and dressed ourselves, and while
the horses were getting ready I went to pay M.L. Oliveira a visit. She returned
with her family some days since in the Funchal, and looks much the same
as before. We were at the Rosses punctually at 7, but our chaperons being still
unprovided with a horse, we thought it more advisable to ride on slowly, but we
were soon overtaken, not by her, but by George Lewis, who attached himself to us
and was a great bore for Miss Ross and Mr Lea did not come up with us till we
were nearly at Camacha. There were not many people assembled yet, so
after we had breakfasted Fanny and I set off to the Taylors, whence we brought
Julia, and then we all with Mr Bean for our guide, set forth to make the grand
tour of his grounds. Julia and I walked behind and talked very happily till we
met the party returning from the Parks, and she said we should be scolded for
remaining so long together, and we had better join them, so we went and sat
altogether in Mr Taylor’s hayfield. A move being presently proposed, they went
home, and Julia and I went to pay our visit to Mrs Park or rather to her new
houses, which will be a very nice one. And then we returned and sat in the
library till dinner looking at the books and watching the arrival of Temples,
Elicotts, Penfolds, Selbys, Wardrope, etc in all 50 were assembled at the dinner
and Mr Fitz James were strangers. I was most unhappily placed between old James
Gordon and Maggie Wardrope, and altho’ there was an immensity of fun and
laughing and toast drinking I found it unutterably slow and dull, especially as
I was dreadfully sleepy and rather headachy. It was over at 5. What a relief!
Miss Ross and I laid on the two sofas in the library for some time and I read
Lady Blessington’s Confessions of an Elderly Gentleman, which though
I think more wicked than the governess in infinitely better written. But I
certainly can never do one any god to read such books, whatever I may say to the
contrary in the heat of argument with Mr Hewson. Then I went to the hayfield and
was much amused witnessing the romping from the top of a haycock, where I was
most comfortably reposing, and if any hay come upon me I quickly threw it off
and remained perfectly unharmed. I was so comfortable that I was quite sorry
when I perceived that all the ladies had left the field, and as it was getting
dark I thought it more advisable for Fanny and me to return, so we all came to
the house where we had tea and a little singing, and then at about 9 we mounted
our horses. It was almost entirely dark, and we had only two or three torches,
but tho’ we must have been about 20 in number and tho’ we rode quickly, no
accident happened, which I much fear would have been the case. Harry Young rode
all the way with me, and we talked very rationally, and I rather like him.
Nevertheless I would be sorry to set my cap at him, although he has £ 1500 a
year . Major Lucas was the only person who escorted the whole way to our door,
which appears to me unpardonably rude. On the whole I had been happy tho’ not
extravagantly so, that is to say about as happy as any other day, but my head
ached awfully, and I was not home till past 11.
Thursday 25th - Up at ½ past 6, as we had many things to arrange.
Papa walked down and put us on our horses at 7, so that we reached the Mount in
excellent time. They had a very pleasant day yesterday, altho’ Mr Hewson had
been very sick and the weather cloudy as we had had, but the innocent Malcolm
was exceedingly happy running about the Quinta and enjoying himself
immensely. Mama and Russel went down soon after breakfast, the only people who
were properly affected at her departure besides myself being Anna and Arthur,
who however soon dried their tears. I wrote this and did nothing till dinner
time, and then I went up to the Wallases who were so happy to see me that they
would not let me come away till past 5, when Jane accompanied me down to get
some books. Their Quinta is not very nice but we walked about immensely,
which, added to my past fatigues, made me so tired that I went with Eliza and
fell asleep in Bella’s arbour, and was only awakened by the tea bell. After tea
we sat down some time talking and we laughed a great deal.
Friday 26th - We neither of us awake till 7, which was very excusable
and I wrote a note to Julia to accept an invitation to the Caniçal party,
which is at last to be on Monday next. After Charley, as I fancied my room was
going to be turned out, I went to the garden and finished St. Cyprian,
which I am beginning to like better, and after dinner I wrote to Anne Evans,
Miss M. and M.A. Finnis so long and fast that I was quite tired, and much
relieved when Eliza came for me to go out with her, and we went and sat in the
woods with much satisfaction. I like her so much. I am sure Mr Hewson has
improved her immensely. Poor man, I am afraid he must be sick by his not
appearing all this time, and on St John’s day he was not well. Being called in
by the bell, we proceeded on our way, and presently met Mr Fitz James walking
with Bella and the children, and making all a great noise. Captain Monley was
riding with him, and had gone on while he called here, so when he came for him
he told Mr F.J. to ask him to tea, as he could not stay without him, so he
rushed to him and we heard him shout – “Come Mobley, the Governor’s in town”,
and I dare say he used many persuasions, but they were ineffectual amusing, but
not over correct. I dare say he would have liked to come for he is very fond of
us, and is always asking the Wallases what kind of girls we are, and takes a
great interest in our proceedings, condoling much with Marion as being “cut out”
by Bella.
Saturday 27th - I abandoned Charley till I had finished my letters,
one also to Kitty. They were sent down early, although the Vernon sails not
until the afternoon. Harriet went in the afternoon to get a book from the
Wallases, and brought down Jane, who sat with us all in the Mirante till
espying Mr Hewson coming up the road she nearly run away, and we only detained
by main forced as she has some unaccountable dread of the poor little man. He is
still very sick, and has not left the house before these two days. I presently
went up with Jane after gathering some flowers, and it was late when I returned,
and quite time for Mr Hewson to depart, but he insisted on walking up and down
the avenue in order to hear what I was angry with him for, so I told him he had
greatly insulted me by telling Bella that he, a friend of 6 months, knew her
better and took more interest in her than I her sister did, and that I was much
offended, so he immediately exclaimed very vigorously dear Mary, how can you
imagine that I ever could think, or day, that you take no interest in your
sister” and then he entirely denied the charge, and declared he had only said
that in some things he thought he knew her better than I did, yet in one he said
even he had been for a long time puzzled, i.e, whether she liked him or not. So
he quite stopped my mouth with all this, and then hoped immensely that I was not
really angry with him, and that it would not prevent our continuing to be
friends, when he had hoped we were beginning to be such good friends, and a
great deal more of the same trend, so I of course forgave him, and we parted
excellent friends, as is always the case.
Monday 28th - Fanny, Harriet and I all went to Church and to town
before breakfast, as we expected to go to Caniçal tomorrow. We called
with the Haywards at Mr Pickens to see his Rabaçal views and bring him
home to dinner, after which, as the Haywards had not been able to procure a four
cared boat for tomorrow it was not thought expedient for us to go in a smaller
one. Papa went down to he beach and returned with the intelligence that we could
have one of Jonh Cow’s, so I immediately went to Julia’s and she rose from the
couch on which she was luxuriously reposing to return with me, and consul upon
the advisability of sending to put on the gentleman who had all been put off,
but just as we were sending up Waldy on the pony to the Quinta de Livramento,
we heard that the bottom of the boat being minus a plank, we were again obliged
to give it up, and Julia returned home. Perhaps it was as well, for Messrs
Hewson and Montgomery are both too ill to come to Church. About 6 Papa and I set
off to the Mount, I on the pony from which I had intended to dismount half way,
but I carried me so splendidly that I went on the whole way, and on reaching the
Quinta we found Messrs Hewson, Montgomery, Charleses Hayward and Murdoch
paying a visit, and it was so dreadfully cold, but Mr Hewson of course could not
go away without speaking to us and lamenting his hard fate in not having heard
the sermon, which I wish he had, for it was most beautiful and very applicable
to him or rather to us who feel “charity” towards him, and then he left me
Keble for today to read as he could not read is to me, which he has been
promising to do for the last month, so they did not go away till it was so cold
and late that I am sure they will both catch cold. In the evening Papa, Eliza
and I had an argument about novels in the course of which if Mr Hewson had heard
me he would have said I was dictatorial.
Monday 29th - Papa met me before breakfast and so I gave him the
pleasure of my company up the woods instead of studying Gibbon, and he went down
after breakfast, calling with Keble on his way. The piano came up so I had the
pleasure of a little practising, though much interrupted by hearing further
particulars of yesterday’s conversation from Bella and our comments thereon. He
certainly comes it awful strong as Arabella would say, but still I cannot but
believe that it is all friendship and nothing else, on one side at any rate.
After dinner we sat in the Furado ? for an hour, and Eliza gave us some
interesting anecdotes, always nothing but Mr Hewson. We shall get quite sick of
him, not, certainly, that I see as yet any symptoms of our arriving at the
desirable conclusion. Then I came and wrote this and then for a wonder read a
little German, till I was called to assist in gathering a nosegay for the same
amiable gentleman who had spoken to Bella on their way to call on the Wallases.
At about 6 a most elegant bouquet having been arranged by Eliza, we went to the
Mirante, where they presently joined us, and then in spite of our earnest
entreaties they would stay talking for an hour. Mr Hewson offended me immensely
by laughing at me for blushing, but I could not scold him then, but I will
tomorrow if he brings me a book, which I asked him to do ( at Bella’s
instigation), as I have none to read. Fanny and Harriet with numerous children
appeared in the evening, having failed in an attempt to reach the waterfall and
Ellen, and the two Sheffields were so much fatigued that we had the compassion
to allow them to sleep here and walk down the next morning.
Tuesday 30th - It is such cold weather I can hardly write. Mary
Oliveira called just as I was returning from a walk round the Quinta, and
we took her to the Mirante, where she entertained us not much with Lisbon
stories, especially as we were wondering till 6 o’clock why Mr Hewson did not
bring my book. At last however he arrived with “the Trouble and the travels of
Prince ____” so then Eliza and I continued our walk and when we returned at a ½
to 8 he had been gone some time. The poor man had been kicked that morning by a
mule, and was so lame that Mama had commanded him not to come up here. He had
been paying her a visit in the kitchen, where she was making dough, and was much
amused thereat, but not disgusted so I think he must be improved. My head ached
so abominably that I was soon obliged to leave an interesting discussion on
proposals and the best way of rejecting them and retire to bed.
Wednesday 1st July [1840] - I made pies and puddings and was at 12
o’clock practising when Bella called me to come and scold Mr Hewson, who was on
his way to spend the day with the Wallases. As I told him I would not hurt his
feelings by scolding him in public we walked up and down the walk leading to the
gate, and there I made him very angry although he would by no means allow it by
expressing my disapprobation of his intention of calling Bella by her Christian
name when they are alone, and not when with her parents and family. This I told
him was not a straightforward and open way of proceeding, and nothing I could
say could or can alter my opinion, but I said that if he and Bella saw ho harm,
they being the best judges of their own conduct, had better not care for what I
said and do what was most agreeable to them. But he said that if it was wrong it
was, and he would be very sorry to do anything he really thought so, but he
still laboured to convince me that, as I confessed, there was not perfect
confidence between us and our parents, and he declared there could never be, one
concealment more or less did not make much difference. To this I replied that as
I had always considered our want of confidence in our Mother a fault and as such
to be striven against, and not encouraged, I thought that when we “liked” we
ought not to make a fuss and mystery. Moreover I maintained that Mama would have
no objection to his treating Bella with the same familiarity that he does me and
every other young lady with whom he is at all intimate, but he told me he knew
better than I, and perhaps he does. So it remained rather unsettled, and Malcolm
presently joining us Mr Hewson went to finish the discussion with Bella, alhto’
at past 1 they had not come to much conclusion, except I believe that it is best
to do what they like without minding the rightness or wrongness of the same, and
to be sure this would be no worse than 100 things that say and do without the
parent’s knowledge. I forgot to mention that in discussing confidence, he told
me that he thought Mama a person who won confidence so very much, and that he
would speak more openly to her than to this own Mother, but still he thought
that it was more natural and better for two sisters to be confident than a
Mother and daughter. Not so Mrs Sherwood. After dinner coming into may room, I
found Bella, to whom I began talking, and presently worked myself up into such a
rage with poor Mr Hewson that I began abusing him most vehemently, ending with
“in short I think he must be cracked, for that is the only way in which I can
understand all his inconsistencies”. I have now arrived at a more satisfactory
understanding. So then as he was to call in on his way from the Wallas I went
and hid myself in the garden, and when I found that Bella had told him every
word I had said with my permission, and that he was more enraged than ever
against me, saying that I was quite silly, and must have taken leave of my
senses, so I am very sorry and especially that I am not to see him to have it
out and make it up before Friday. Papa and Mama came up.
Thursday 2nd - As I was practising, Marion came in with Arabella,
who had been spending yesterday with them. So I walked up with them again,
and brought down Arabella. Papa brought up a Mr Robert Martin, Lady
Newbolt’s nephew, with his friend, Mr Frost, and Mr Lowe also dined with us.
We were much amused all dinner time with the innocent remarks of Mr Martin,
and especially with his unfeigned astonishment at our never having even seen
or heard hurdygurdys, informing us that there were hundreds of them in
England, likewise plenty of gooseberries which he was sorry to hear we had
not. He was also much surprised to hear the frogs croak here as his Mama had
told him that there were plenty in India, but had not led him to expect any
here. Mr Frost is painfully hideous and not refined in appearance or manner,
but he amused us much with an account of some caricatures which have been
made of the Queen. After dinner we all went down to the hayfield, but as
Arabella was rather sick and not able to come out I soon returned to her,
but Charles Hayward, Mrs Mackworth, Shore, and the Miss Blandys calling, I
had not the pleasure of much of her conversation and was much bored and
rather blue, I do believe because I am so sorry I have offended that young
gent, and I don’t know what to say to him when we meet. I wish it was over.
Messrs Frost and Martin were obliged to depart early to be on board their
ship the Roxburgh Castle, in which they are going to India to join
their regiments, and Mr Lowe also went away before tea.
Friday 3rd - I grievously offended Arabella this morning by
telling her that civilised people did not consider it decent or delicate to
strip themselves stark naked which she always does in performing her
ablutions, and that in future it would be as well either to turn us out of
the room or to wait till we were gone till she did so, as she declared it
was absolutely necessary to cleanliness so to do. She was rather sulky, but
tried not to be, and I am very sorry that we should be in a state of polite
enmity, which it seems we are to be, but really I could not consent to
endure the same horrors which so much disgusted me with her when she was
staying with us last year, and I hope it may do her some good, for I do
believe if she had not the misfortune to have an owl for her Mother she
would be as charming in little things as she is in greater. Today I hope the
row will be over, but I am so distressed I find myself growing so very
gentle and merciful that I know I shall not have the heart to give the
scolding I am beginning to think he does not deserve. The children seized
and kept possession of the piano all the morning, so I wrote this and read
while Arabella walked in the garden and lay on the bed reading Nubazuft.
Mama read Troilus and Cressida, but I heard not much of it, and about
5 entered Mr Hewson, who just touched my hand and looked so black. Presently
Mama insisted on our all putting on our bonnets and going to the Mirante,
where all went and sat together till Charles Hayward arriving there was an
excuse for my going out, and he soon followed me, and we went along the walk
together, but so far from my being able to scold him completely turned the
table upon me and almost succeeded in persuading me as he always can that he
is the most innocent and injured person in life. He said it was exceedingly
wrong of me after having known a person so long as I had known him to speak
so decidedly in his abuse as I had to Bella, for he made me say I did not
mean half that I had said, which was that he was systematically deceiving
Mama and everyone and causing Bella to do the same. And he declared that he
never deceived anyone, and that he behaved to Bella exactly the same in
public as in private! I would not tell the man he lied altho’ I know this is
not true, so we parted with still much distrust on both sides, but I cannot
and fear I never shall understand him, and I don’t at all approve of his
friendship or whatever it is with Bella. Either let him be a friend or a
lover entirely, and not something between the two, which bothers me
completely, altho’ to be sure I have no right to bother myself as Bella is
content, but I don’t and can’t like half measures. I think I shall dislike
him soon (I was mistaken)
Saturday 4th - Arabella less sulky today, but her violent
affection for me is evidently much cooled by my yesterday’s lecture, but I
ought not to regret this, as the affection which can be so diminished is
surely not worth regretting, and after all I believe my friendship for her
is not so very overwhelming but only my vanity and jealousy (the existence
of which in our friendly days Mr Hewson would not believe, but now I suppose
he would believe anything ill for me) or hurt at finding myself so soon cut
out by Marion, which I decidedly am. Being very sick I lay down nearly all
day and after dinner Arabella lay with me and we were very good friends till
Jane Wallas and the Shores appeared, and the latter after walking about a
little took her away. It is quite decided that they go to England very soon
– in the Florence probably, alas! Alas! Papa had the lumbago and could not
come up so Mama went down to him after tea.
Sunday 5th - Mama would not allow either of us to go down so the
children went before breakfast and we passed the morning very tranquilly.
After Prayers I came and lay down all the rest of the day reading
Wilberforce’s Parochial System and Jewell’s Apology and between 5
and 6 I heard Bella and Mr Hewson pass by to the arbour, where they staid so
late that she did not come to me till nearly 8, and then she excited much
indignation in my mind, but what she said will probably be found in her own
journal, so I will not put it second-hand. I don’t at all approve of their
behaviour, but as all my virtuous endeavours to bring them to a more correct
way of thinking or at least of acting, for they must know that they are not
behaving properly, are treated with so much contempt, what can I do but
scold Bella, who agrees with all I say, and then the very next visit is
persuaded that it is I am the humbug and not her. Papa was to come to dine
there tomorrow, but sent up word by the children that he should not be well
enough. Mr Hewson had been paying him an hour’s visit in his room, and yet
complains Papa does not like him. It must be his guilty conscience which
tells him he does not deserve he should like him.
Monday 6th - Business done, I being bothered and not inclined to
practice took up a note from Arabella to Marion which is most affectionate
as I perceived from a small peep I took, oh naughty! It is very wrong to be
jealous. I will not be but what has become of all the calm tranquillity and
innocence caused by the pure air of the Mount that I was writing about a few
days ago? Oh I am very naughty, when shall I be better? Marion was very
funny, not exactly sulky, but remarkably cool, tho’ she walked with me down
to the gate and warmed a little then. After dinner I made pies and puddings
till I was nearly dead, when I lay on the sofa and recovered, reading Mr
Jameson’s Social Life which is very pretty, and after tea I read one
aloud and Mama then arriving from town we were not in bed till past 12.
Tuesday 7th - We did not breakfast till 9 as we expected Major
Lucas and Papa and the Carters, but only Papa and Mr Carter appeared, the
others being ill. Bella also very sick and not able to leave her bed, and Mr
Hewson at 11 o’clock brought up word that Mr Montgomery was unable from
sickness to come and Mr Freeman from a previous engagement, so our party is
much diminished, but the unkindest out of all was Mr Hewson’s sudden
disappearance, for while he was here we thought not of the others, but while
Mama was reading aloud to them all, I being with Bella, he suddenly rose and
left the house, and was not seen for two hours after, when Papa met him
going out of the gate, and he told him that he had been trying to get over
his sickness all this time, but now feeling it impossible so to do, he was
going home, so he went, and wished no one else goodbye, which was very
unkind. Poor little darling, I can’t feel angry with him when he is so sick.
The dinner was of course intolerably slow with Mr Carter only to amuse us,
and besides this grief, which Eliza afterwards relieved by writing a most
affectionate note to which she begged an answer, and they presently all went
to take a walk, but I was permitted to remain with Bella, so I wrote this
and finished the Princess Amelia, who I admire exceedingly. I never
read such pretty plays and they are very well translated, but I wish Mrs
Jamieson would not get into Carlyle’s habit of using German words. Mr Carter
went down before tea, and we all retired soon after.
Wednesday 8th - R. brought up a note from Mr Hewson written last
night in answer to one from Eliza, and saying he was a little better. Bella
got up after dinner, tho’ in vain as only Mr Montgomery appeared with such a
very bad account of Mr Hewson, who he told Eliza is lying all day long on
the sofa in very bad spirits. What a pity it would not be correct for some
of us to go and comfort him. Arabella, who is staying up there, and Marion
also came to see us, and when Mama had finished Simon of Athens they
took me up to tea with them. Poor dear Marion is in such despair at Mr
Hewson’s illness. I really do begin to think she has a real affection for
him, as now surely vanity can have nothing to do with it. We walked in the
moonlight till Mrs Wallas called us in, and then she laid her head in my lap
and I comfort her as well as I could. Poor little girl, I can now understand
a little better her melancholy looks which have puzzled me so much lately,
of which she naturally would not give an explanation. She told me much to my
astonishment that Arabella had been actually crying because I had made her
think the three days she spent with me that I had no affection for her, for
she said that she used to hope and believe that I had some little regard for
her. Such a funny idea for Arabella to care so much for my liking her or
not, so now I suppose I can do no less in gratitude than like her in return
as she is so fond of me, and so long as I don’t see all her unpleasing
habits this will not be difficult. I returned about 10.
Thursday 9th - We heard nothing of Mr
Hewson all day. Oh despair! Mama went with us all up to the Wallases, and
while she was paying her a visit in the drawing room we all went to the
Curral dos Romeiros
where Marion and I soon lost sight of the others, and seating on the hill we
sight soon so interested in our conversation that it was moonlight before we
thought of returning, and then I did not like to go up to tea with the
Wallases, hoping that Papa would have brought some account of Mr Hewson,
which however he had not.
Friday 10th - I was at the Curral gate at ½ past 7 by
appointment to meet Marion, who had been waiting in most anxious expectation
for news of Mr Hewson, and was doomed again to be disappointed as I had
nothing to tell, so after standing talking through the gate and vainly
endeavouring to scale the wall, I came home and found to my great disgust
that prayers were over and breakfast begun, but I was not scolded. At about
three Marion, Jane and Arabella came by invitation to read Shakespeare,
which when Mama had done for some time Mr Hewson appeared, and after the 3rd
act of Corialanus we all went to walk, and as Eliza and Marion have a great
desire to become acquainted and were walking and talking together most
vigorously , for with such a bond of sympathy as their affection for Mr
Hewson no wonder they should immediately find themselves friends, I made it
up with Arabella, and we talked as lovingly as before. I cannot but be
amused at the change of her sentiments respecting Mr Hewson, which amusement
when I expressed to her she said – Oh Mary, I can’t help feeling interested
in him now he is so sick”, but as I told her, she would be just as
interested if he were well. It is certainly most extraordinary how he so
invariably succeeds in humbugging those even who are most prejudiced against
him. I should not be the least surprised if in a little he were to make that
poor child firmly believe that he was the most sincere, lasting and ardent
affection for her as he was – and – many others before. Alas! Alas! I fear
he is after all a heartless, incorrigible though most agreeable flirt and
nothing else, and I do believe that all his protestations of friendship, to
say nothing of warmer ones, are all humbug humbug, I have been a long time
progressing toward this opinion, and now it will I think never be changed.
(footnote – again mistaken). I only hope Arabella will not fall in love with
him, but I think he would not find much difficulty in wining her too
susceptible heart. After tea Mama told us of poor Mrs Wynter’s death, which
she had just heard of in a letter from Mrs Jones. Marion and Arabella were
most afflicted, and Bella and I comfort them till they were sent for, after
which Eliza was most unfeignedly distressed when we informed her of much as
we thought prudent of his deception, for nothing else can we think his
behaviour, viewing it in the most favourable light. And then I staid with
Bella to hear more particulars, which were not very interesting, as they did
not sit in the arbour, only he said to her “how hard it is to conform my
speech to you to Mary’s ideas of propriety”. Oh he’s bad, very bad!
Saturday 11th - Bella went to town in the morning and Mama and
Miss Hayward in the afternoon, calling on their way on Mr Hewson and Mama
drinking tea with Mrs Temple. So I being left alone, went to walk with
Marion, and she made me stay to tea and we talked till 11 o’clock, and she
told me many more particulars of her intercourse with Mr Hewson, than ever
she did before, from which it appears more than ever how very ill he has
behaved, which considering Marion’s youth and inexperience is terribly bad.
In fact the more one knows of him, the deeper one gets into the mire, and to
the bottom I firmly believe we shall never get, for his wickedness is
unfathomable, and as I told Bella to tell him the other day, I don’t love
him at all, and I only hope he wont make me eat my words again, and yet I
should hardly be surprised at anything he made me or anyone say or do even
think or feel. What a splendid hero of a novel he would make! With the
extraordinary contrast between his little insignificant form and face, and
the wonderful fascination and influence he soon obtains.
Monday 12th - Mama was to put up a blue signal if Mr Shore
preached, and a white if Mr Lowe was returned from his fishing excursion,
for me to regulate my movements accordingly, but on rising as I perceived
what appeared to be a white, I sent the children down and staid up all alone
all day with only Clara and Charley, to whom I read prayers, heard catechism
etc. I walked all the afternoon in the woods, and did not find Keble on
Tradition so interesting as to keep my thoughts from occasionally
wandering to very irrelevant subjects, especially Mr Hewson’s unworthiness,
of which I feel more convinced the more I think of it, tho’ nothing
particular has happened to make me think more than I did expect perhaps
Marion’s communications. The children came up about 1, and to my infinite
disgust told me that Mr Shore had preached an exquisite sermon, and that the
signal was a blue peter, which of course did not appear at this distance.
They had met Mr Hewson, who was looking wretchedly ill, so I went with Fanny
to the Wallases to condole with Marion on the subject, as I felt very
solitary, and found her walking in the garden with her Luther, so she came
and walked with me, but could not come to tea her father being there, but
Mrs Wallas most graciously invited me to stay and was extremely grieved when
she heard of my solitariness that I had not gone to spend the day there.
Fanny and Jane stationed themselves at some distance, and poor Fanny found
it rather slow, but said that we seemed to be laughing and talking in a most
animated manner, and so we were.
Monday 13th - It poured the whole day, so the children done, I
lay down in my room and read Gibbon. Mackworth called on the children but I
did not see him, and in the evening much to my astonishment Eliza and Bella
appeared in the rain, and we staid up talking till 11.
with them for they had a most interesting conversation in which he as usual,
in spite of all our lecturing, half persuaded Bella he was no humbug, and in
truth if he be a humbug he is the very best actor that ever performed a
part. I am beginning to doubt that he can be entirely acting, for everything
he does and says is so consistent, so I have again come to the conclusion
that he has lost his senses and does not know exactly what he means, but
just acts, speaks or does on impulse of the moment. When he thought it fine
enough to depart it was time for him to go down, as Papa was to dine with
them, so poor Marion was disappointed of her ride, poor child. Bella
stationed herself at the Mirante, as he hoped to be able to come up
after Papa came, but he was not able so she sat there all the afternoon
reading, and Eliza and I worked, walked and talked, as she and all of them
are going to stay at St Ann’s on Thursday, including the Hewsons. Papa and
Mama came up after we had all retired.
Wednesday 15th - Such miserable weather still that I am afraid
the party must be put off. Mr Hewson is of course in despair that there is
not much probability of our going, and so is Eliza very sorry, but they are
afraid there will not be room for us there, being only 4 rooms for the whole
party. The children went up to fetch Jane to hear Shakespeare. As soon as
Corialanus was finished we went to walk up and down, and presently Mr
Hewson appeared, upon which Bella went to the Mirante, and we went to
the house, and then I took Jane up the Quinta, being followed by Mr
Hewson till we were out of sight of the house, when he rushed to Bella. We
did not join them till about 7, when he and Mr Montgomery, who came to fetch
him, departed. In the evening it was bright moonlight, so Eliza and I walked
for an immense time in the avenue, she all the time bitterly grieving at
Bella’s unworthiness, which seems to distress her almost more than Mr
Hewson’s, to which she is getting a little reconciled, and she says she
would not even ask him to the North’s if they had room, and everything
convenient. I on the contrary said it would be a very good thing because it
would hasten the denouement which I now think, in spite of my contrary
opinion to Arabella, must take place sooner or later. Not that I think or at
least am sure that he is in love, or means to say no, but either this must
happen or they must cut one another, and I do wish they would be quick about
it.
Thursday 16th - Mrs Hayward, Julia, Ellen and Waldemar were here
before 8 to breakfast, and Mr Hewson and Mr Montgomery were in time for them
all with Eliza to set off before 9. The weather charming. In spite of all my
anger and distrust and all that kind of thing, I could not help being a
little sorry to wish him Goodbye for such a long time. I do believe I am
more sorry than Bella ( footnote – a little mistake probably) . He told me
yesterday that he had so many things to ask me about, and he said “ By the
Bye”, I hear you have a scolding for me too! But I told him that I had not,
and that I never meant to scold him any more because it did no good, and
when he asked me if I thought him incorrigible I said “yes” but we had not
time to say any more. I suppose he will have forgotten all the things he
wants so much to ask me by the time he comes back – besides it is all
humbug. Fanny and Harriet went to town to hear music in the Church and get
some things that were wanted, and I picked off dead flowers to please Mama,
and otherwise did as usual, gradually growing to feel as if nothing had
happened. I read Howitt’s Visits to innumerable places all the
afternoon very contentedly, and Papa came up in the evening with no news.
Friday 17th. Jane and Lisay Edwards came up at ½ past 7 to
breakfast before any of us were dressed. They are slightly slow, but Mama
read Julius Caesar in the morning and in the afternoon we took a walk
in the Curral and Church and Gordons, where we paid a long visit in
the garden. Papa and Tom Edwards came up to dinner, and the latter made
himself as agreeable as it is in the nature of an Edwards to be. We met Mr
Bayman near the waterfall who had been invited to tea, and finding no one at
home had come to meet us. Of course we were no longer the least slow after
he joined the party, and in the evening we danced a quadrille, and they
departed all very well satisfied.